About this episode
In this powerful second installment of a three-part series on marriage, Marci Owen tackles one of the most common — and often invisible — sources of tension in relationships: unspoken expectations, or what she calls manuals. Do you ever think, "He should know I need help" or "He should listen better"? You're not alone. These thoughts might feel justified, but they could actually be creating silent cracks in your marriage. In this episode, Marci breaks down how these internal rulebooks, combined with the natural communication differences between men and women, can lead to resentment, frustration, and disconnection. You'll learn: What a "manual" is — and why it's silently sabotaging your relationship Why unmet expectations hurt (hint: it's not what you think) The biological and communication differences between men and women that often go misunderstood How to shift from frustration to connection by softening your approach Why taking responsibility for your emotional well-being is the key to a thriving marriage Marci also takes a moment to reflect on a recent local tragedy, offering heartfelt thoughts on grief, community, and choosing love over fear. This episode is a blend of honest truth, emotional insight, and practical tools to help you build deeper connection and create the kind of marriage you actually want. 🔗 Plus, Marci invites you to join Self-Love University — her powerful program for Christian women who are ready to drop the old stories, heal their nervous systems, and live from confidence, clarity, and compassion. Don't forget to tune in next week for the final part of this series, where Marci will unveil her brand-new guide on the three types of conversations that will build connection and intimacy in your marriage. JOIN me in Self Love YOUniversity: Click HERE Useful Resources: •Visit Marci's Website: https://marciowen.com •FREE Video Series: How to Overcome Negative Self Talk & Cultivate Self Love •Learn my 3 Secrets to Instantly Feel Better (scroll down to bottom of page) •Sign up HERE for a free Clarity Call with Marci Get on my Mailing List! Click HERE to get Marci's Minute weekly (mostly) email. Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have. Connect with Advanced Certified Coach, Marci Owen •Email: marci@marciowen.com You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. •Instagram Marci.OwenCoaching •Facebook Marci Owen coaching Episode Website
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In this powerful second installment of a three-part series on marriage, Marci Owen tackles one of the most common — and often invisible — sources of tension in relationships: unspoken expect...